Divorce
Divorce is the process for dissolving formal marriages.
Studies suggest that 20 percent of marriages end within the first five year and that 28years to 30 years are the best years to get married.
Generally there is a list of reasons for divorce or breakup as analysed
Money is always a sensitive cause
Money is not a general cause but rather a very sensitive subject for all married couples.
These familiar finances become even more harder to agree upon when only one spouse has consistent income source .Some married couples undergo serious conflicts when it comes to debt accumulation.
Lack of communication
Good communication is the foundation of a strong marriage and not being able to communicate effectively quickly leads to dissatisfaction and frustration for both parties. Therefore, it is so crucial in marriage.
On the other hand, good communication is the foundation of a strong marriage. When two people are sharing a life together, they must be able to talk about what they need. And be able to understand and try to meet the needs of their partner.
Lack of sex
A sexless marriage will always indicate a red flag for a couple to notice that their relationship is breaking apart. One may fail to continue the marriage if the other partner is not sexually active and will not be fulfilling the others sexual urge
Abuse
This comes in many forms, it is not just the physical abuse that people sustain when married.
Other types of abuse include; emotional abuse, psychological abuse and financial abuse
And most of all, domestic abuse and emotional abuse are the most common types of abuse we see on divorce petitions from the couples. Many people try to endure abuse for a long time thinking that the other person will change while others stand up and to look justice hence divorce.
Cheating/ adultery
Adultery has always been happening for many years which is nothing new. It is also one of the greatest reasons why people divorce. This normally happens when one is lustful or dissatisfied by what the other partner offers hence cheating
Disputes over family responsibilities
Here a couple finds it hard to get to know who will be responsible to meet needs of the family. This becomes harder for a partner who believes in traditional gender roles
For example; a woman is inferior and has to do home duties while the man has to look for money to cater for the children. Hence there will not be equality in the home.
Lack of preparation & [how can you tell you are ready to commit to marriage?]
Preparation include; efforts of professionals to help partners build skills and awareness for satisfying marriages
One should not enter marriage with unrealistic expectations or with false impressions since marriage is based on vows which have to be fulfilled in whatever situation.
